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Saturday, March 8, 2014

Being the Perfect BFF

Hey guys! This post is going to be about how you can be the perfect BFF! I am so excited for spring break so we can post more frequently because we are so piled with homework now! If you have any requests on what you want us to post next comment down below!
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Be trustworthy

This is one of the most important ones! If your friend is tell you a secret and says it's really private and for you not to tell anyone, then don't tell anyone. Even if she doesn't say don't tell anyone and she is telling you who she has a crush on don't go and tell everyone because even though she didn't say don't tell anyone doesn't mean you can still tell.
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Stick up for each each other
If your friend is in a situation where she is being pushed around or bullied, don't just stand there and watch it happen, tell them to stop and stick up for her!
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Listen to each other
If your friend has a situation or and issue with someone and she really needs to talk about it make sure that she knows she can always come to you! Usually a girl wants a best friend that is totally interested in everything that comes out of their mouth  and is willing to help them. The last thing they want is for you not to listen to them
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Trust each other
Make sure you trust each other. Trusting each other is very important, make sure you can trust them with anything and everything! If you want to see if you can trust them make something up to try them out. ex. Lets say one of your friends name is Susie and the friend you don't know if you can trust but want to be BFFS with is Christina. Go to Susie and tell her you are going to go tell Christina you hated her to see if she is trustworthy or will just go straight and tell you. Next go tell Christina you have a secret that she cant tell anyone (tell her you hate Susie). Later on in the week ask Susie if Christina had said anything to her. If she didn't she is trustworthy
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Dont be mean
Never, and I mean NEVER be mean in anyway. If you to get into a fight simple go up to you your best friend and tell them why you are angry at them. Try not to do it over txt because they could take it the wrong way so do it face to face. Also, do not go to other people and say she is a slut, bitch, etc. because people will want to know what happened and the situation will be bigger than it needs to be. If you do that people will know you and your best friend got into a huge fight and they will start to gossip and spread rumors that aren't true.
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Hangout
Always try and get together. Don't just go to each others houses do something fun, like go to the mall or the movie, if you are old enough to drive you could even go on a mini road trip to show how much you care about each other and that you want to be with her! Don't hangout everyday though because if you do you too might get sick of each other because you have nothing else fun to do after a while.

Hope this helped! If you guys have any requests comment down below what you want us to post next! Stay sweet! Bye y'all!

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